Congratulations Coach!

Former University of Tennessee Head Coach Phillip Fulmer can now say he is a Hall of Famer. It is a well deserved honor. I will let his record speak for itself. I know there are some who want to focus on the negative things of his time at Tennessee. Everyone is entiled to their opinion. Positive or negative is not the point of this post.

Jayson Swain (@JaysonSwain) posted to twitter this morning and posed the question of what is your favorite Fulmer memory. I replied with Fulmer's last game. I was honored to be in the stands for his last home game. I loved how the players respected the man enough to hoist him over their heads and carry him off the field. To me that says something about his character as coach and as a man. But that isn't my favorite memory. It's the memeory that is less than 140 characters.

My favorite memory is passion he showed for the game, the school, and the players.

Growing up in East Tennessee you can become numb to all the orange and the hype. I really didn't start enjoying football till about 8th grade. I was a band geek and knew I needed to know what was going to happen every Friday night from August to December. It was during this time I saw Coach Majors leave and Coach Fulmer arrive. I can honestly say Coach Fulmer is the reason I love Tennessee football. He made me want to watch. I'm not proud that it took me till his last season to see a game in person but I'm glad I got to see most of his last season at Neyland.

So, Mr. Swain there's your answer. Coach Fulmer is my favorite memory Coah Fulmer memory. He got to coach for a program he loved at a school he loved. And it showed!

Congratulations Coach Fulmer! It is a well deserved honor!

Sports, Twitter, and everything that goes with them...

It's that time of year when sports fans need ADD meds to keep things straight. Baseball has started, hockey is in playoffs, basketball is wrapping up, and football is in spring practice. Things are basically nuts! As a fan I love this time of year. Everything all at once! My Twitter timeline has  more sports related items than ESPN. Unfortantely, this time of year can bring out the worst in sports fans.
Here recently I've noticed a trend, and not a good one. I'm seeing more and more people go after each other over sports. Smack talk is one thing, but this is worse. A friend described it as vitriol. I agree. People are going after each other with such disgust, disrespect, hurt, and anger. Ugh!
I understand passion for a game or a team. And I understand things said in the virtual world can be misread and misunderstood. But what I'm seeing is unnerving.
I was raised to respect others people's opinions and feelings. I was also taught early on it was ok to agree to disagree. And, as I grew up, I learned the importance of letting things go. There are some out there that need a refresher course in all 3.
People do things you don't agree with. People like teams you don't like. People like other people you don't like. The world doesn't end because 2 people disagree. Agree to disagree and MOVE ON! Let it go. Don't sit there and subtweet, or even direct tweet, for days about it. It makes you look like an ugly ass who deserved to be unfollowed, unfriended, muted, or blocked all together.
Keep it classy people!

South Beach and Me

Guess what! As of today, I have been on the South Beach Diet for a whopping 11 days! If you know me and my love affair with food, this is HUGE!!!! I will be honest though, I haven't been truly faithful with the diet. For the first 9 days I would allow my self 1 "cheat" item. This helped me ease into the diet. I can tell a difference. I have more energy, enough to do a 22 hour day with little caffeine energy. I'm noticing that parts of me are shrinking. Not sure if others notice, but I do, and that is what matters. A friend asked what day of the week I weigh or if I was doing it based on inches. I'm doing neither. I know me. I need to change my relationship with food and not worry about numbers. I going on how I feel and I think I look. I know where I want to be and I know what it's going to take to get there. So, I'm going to continue Phase 1 for another 2 1/2 weeks and then switch to Phase 2. Also, need to start the whole exercise thing. GULP! Not looking forward to that, but it must be done. I have a goal to do PX90 without killing myself. Hmmmmm

Hope everyone has a good day!

Kat

Me...

Everyone has things in their past that shape them as a person. It wasn't until recently that I realized how much some of my past actions shape me as a person. There are some things that I do that may seem irrational to some but make sense to me. There have been times when I have felt that I needed to apologize for who I was and the way I acted. Based on past experiences, it was what I was supposed to do. I realize now that I should not ever have to apologize for who I am. So, who am I?

I am a woman who loves with all her heart. Some say I give it too freely, but I don't feel that I do.
I am a friend. If I call you friend, know that the title of friend come with me and all my quirks. I am there when you need me and I expect the same in return.
I expect honesty of those closest to me and I give honesty in return.
Respect is something that is earned. And I will be the first to tell you that there is no hard and fast rule to how earn respect from me.
Along with all of this comes trust. Trust is earned and given with the stipulation that if you break it, there will be no more.
I am a caregiver. I have a tendency to try to take care of the people I care for the most. It is something I have always done. It is something that I will always do.
I am someone who puts my own personal needs and wants to the side to make sure the people I care for are taken care of. This is hard for some to understand. But it is how I was raised.

I'm not saying that I don't struggle with these things, because I do, daily. I'm saying this is me and don't try to change me, just try to understand me.

Kat